You mean female-only authors? Or say, my perspective if I was a female?

I can answer the former with a few reccos:

1. Light On The Path by Mabel Collins

2. Tiny Beautiful Things by Cheryl Strayed

3. The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand

4. Assassin's Apprentice by Robin Hobb

Not "life changing" for me but pretty good deeply influential books.

As to the former? I can't even imagine.