Wow bro. Just. Wow. I love this article with all my heart and soul. I already do 1 (most of the times) and I resonate so much with 3.
I used to be the kid that tagged along as well but since college, I'm one of the centres and I do JUST this. I take turns looking at everyone when talking trying to make everyone feel important.
And I believe this empathy came naturally to me, thanks to being on the other side and witnessing how much of a toll on your self esteem it can take.
My main takeaway from this article is the rounding thing. Wow, such a small thing but so powerful. This is something I'll carry with me possibly forever in my mind