Tbh it's our evolutionary wiring. Women, by virtue of their much higher biological cost of sex (pregnancy) seek quality. While men with very little sexual biological cost (literally a fraction of ejaculata) seek quantity.

Before the 2000s, due to culture and the lack of social media, this was okay -> Despite women having more abundance, it wasn't too disproportional.

But now? With Instagram, Only Fans, and dating apps, even the most average of women have hundreds of options.

This is why 85% of women now want to date the top 5% of men. Dating is a woman's game for most but if you reach the top 5% of men, it becomes your game