I love how balanced and objective your post is. What you've expounded upon is the "pop" and "toxic" side of redpill.
Contrary to what many think, the red pill isn't about dating, that's only the tip of the iceberg.
It's more of lifestyle design - focusing on yourself and letting women "enter" your life rather than making them the top priority of your life.
It's more male empowerment and teaching men to take full control (and accountability of the responsibilities that come along with it) of their lives.
At it's core, it stems from the belief (or rather fact) that men and women are mentally and physically different.