I hear May Pang (another Medium writer and a relationship coach and a great human being) often say this.

But this always seemed like a "feel-good" cliche to me - more than genuine advice.

I think it begs the philosophical question - WHY choose the same person daily? And HOW to choose the same person daily?

I might be too young and immature to wrap my head around this - but I genuinely don't understand it (but I sorely wish to understand)