I 100% agree with what you're saying. And it's precisely getting super comfortable with yourself that takes so much time and effort.

People mistake self improvement for augmenting yourself or changing things constantly.

In most cases, it's a gradual acceptance of your unchangeable accepts and growing "into" them.

Again, as you said, yes, a strong aura can put a lot of people off.

While mine's nowhere as powerful as it could be, I've already had experiences to corroborate your point