Her argument is literally the same as yours Ben (Granted she's in a polyamorous relationship but she also stresses on the same "Choose the same person daily" idea).

Do I think love and fidelity are worth it? I am too young (23) to know honestly - and the only serious "relationship" I had so far 100% showed it was worth it - I grew 10x as much mentally, behaviorally, and spiritually thanks to it than I did during my casual dating years.

But I let her go - or rather things didn't workout because of some deep beliefs the Red Pill instilled in me (and some fundamental disagreements).

Half of my friends are mad at and disappointed with me for letting go of "such a good girl" - and the others laud me for "taking such a hard stance".

Relationships are SO complex that there seems to be no right answer - it's all grey and therein lies the quandary.

Ben, you're one of those few healthy masculine role models left in this world (and I look upto) and I'd love to know - if this conviction in "Love and fidelity" came with age...

Did you lose (or failed to recognize) good women/relationships in the past? Is it part of the growing process to gain the necessary conviction in the idea (or any other related to relationships)?

Your lengthy and detailed reply already means and explains a lot. I'd love to know answers to the above. Thanks and great day ahead Ben!