But this is only until the "foot gets in the door" - and also, it says more about the man than the woman...

The ones going for the "SEX" type as you put it clearly want, well... sex...

Been there done that, but in a phase where I only ever want to date-to-marry, such women would be an instant No.

So yes, physical attraction is important - but that needn't be sexual(ized) attraction. I'd be far more interested in a girl-next-door-type at the library/meditation-class than the seductive wearing-almost-nothing-types at the club - well, wouldn't even meet the latter since I don't go to clubs.